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The Devil Is in the Details…or the Drums…or…Everything? How High-Control Religion Creates Spiritual Paranoia
If you were taught the devil could be lurking in everything—from music to your own thoughts—you’re not alone. This blog explores how high-control religion creates spiritual paranoia, and how survivors of religious trauma can begin to unlearn that fear.
Why You Still Feel Like the Bad One: Original Sin and the Shame That Won’t Let Go
Even after deconstructing harmful theology, many survivors still feel inherently “bad.” This post explores how the doctrine of original sin wires in shame—and how to begin healing from it.
Why High Control Religion Glorifies Suffering — And How That Impacts Religious Trauma Survivors
High control religion often teaches that suffering is either your fault—or somehow makes you more holy. In this post, I share how those beliefs shaped my own story and how they show up in therapy with religious trauma survivors. If pain has ever felt like something you deserved, you're not alone—and you're not beyond healing.