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Why Pride Month Can Feel Complicated for LGBTQ+ Survivors of Religious Trauma
For many LGBTQ+ survivors of religious trauma, Pride Month can bring up grief, fear, shame, and complicated emotions alongside celebration. This post explores the lasting impact of high-control religion on identity, visibility, safety, and healing.
How Purity Culture Uniquely Impacts LGBTQ+ Survivors of Religious Trauma
Purity culture doesn’t just shape heterosexual relationships—it profoundly impacts LGBTQ+ people in ways that are often confusing, isolating, and deeply internalized. This post explores how queer individuals raised in high-control religious environments experience identity confusion, shame, delayed development, and disconnection from desire and the body.
Biblical Womanhood vs Embodied Womanhood: How High-Control Religion Disconnects Women From Themselves
Many women raised in high-control religion were taught to suppress themselves in the name of “biblical womanhood.” This post explores how purity culture, submission teachings, and spiritualized self-sacrifice disconnect women from themselves — and what embodied healing can look like after religious trauma.
When “God’s Plan” Becomes a Way to Minimize Harm
Phrases like “God has a plan” or “everything happens for a reason” are meant to comfort—but for many survivors of high-control religion, they feel minimizing and invalidating. This post explores how spiritual bypassing shows up in religious trauma and why it can make healing harder.
Why a Religious Trauma Therapist Won’t Tell You What to Do (And Why That’s Actually the Point)
Many religious trauma survivors feel anxious when their therapist won’t tell them what to do. This post explains why—and how therapy helps rebuild self-trust after high-control religion.
3 Ways Religious Trauma Survivors Minimize Their Trauma
Many survivors of religious trauma minimize what they went through. Here are three common ways this shows up—and why it makes healing harder.
It’s Okay If You’re Not Grateful This Thanksgiving: Healing from Religious Trauma
Not feeling grateful this Thanksgiving? For survivors of religious trauma, honoring your true emotions is part of the healing process. Here’s why it’s okay to feel what you feel this holiday season.
When Healing Hurts: Choosing the Discomfort That Leads to Freedom After Religious Trauma
Not all pain means progress. In religious trauma recovery, learning to choose the discomfort that leads to freedom is part of healing. Discover what productive discomfort looks like — and how to stop confusing suffering with growth.
When a Simple Mistake Feels Like a Sin: Healing After Religious Trauma
When you grow up in high-control religion, even small mistakes can feel like proof that you’re bad or broken. This post explores how religious trauma warps your relationship with being human — and what it looks like to relearn the simple “oops.”