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How Religious Trauma Survivors Heal: Patterns I See Again and Again as a Therapist
Healing from religious trauma isn’t just about changing beliefs—it’s about practical steps you can take. Discover patterns survivors follow to reconnect with their body, build supportive community, reclaim play, and create personal rituals that restore agency and safety.
3 Ways Religious Trauma Survivors Minimize Their Trauma
Many survivors of religious trauma minimize what they went through. Here are three common ways this shows up—and why it makes healing harder.
It’s Okay If You’re Not Grateful This Thanksgiving: Healing from Religious Trauma
Not feeling grateful this Thanksgiving? For survivors of religious trauma, honoring your true emotions is part of the healing process. Here’s why it’s okay to feel what you feel this holiday season.
When Healing Hurts: Choosing the Discomfort That Leads to Freedom After Religious Trauma
Not all pain means progress. In religious trauma recovery, learning to choose the discomfort that leads to freedom is part of healing. Discover what productive discomfort looks like — and how to stop confusing suffering with growth.
How Purity Culture Hurts Queer People — and What Healing Really Looks Like
Purity culture often told queer people their identities were wrong or unholy. But healing means unlearning those messages and reclaiming the love, freedom, and self-worth you were always meant to have.
Healing from Religious Trauma: Learning to Center Yourself as the Main Character in Your Story
Feeling like a supporting character in your own life after years of religious control is common — and healable. In this post I share what it looks like to center yourself as the main character: how to recognize faith-based messages that minimized you, small practical steps toward reclaiming your story, and compassionate guidance for survivors of spiritual abuse and purity culture.
What Is Religious Trauma?
Religious trauma happens when fear, shame, or control within a faith community cause lasting harm. Learn the signs and how healing is possible.